Maja Turlej

The term 'lady' is analogous to 'real man'. 'Being a lady' is useless  phrase since everyone understands it differently. One could say that a lady is just a well behaved person that happened to be a woman. Someone else would describe 'lady' as girl that is behaving and dressing up in very feminine and 'classy' way. Everybody can think about 'somebody being a lady' in different ways and it's hard to establish who's right. It would be much more precise if we stop using general concepts such as 'lady' and 'real man'. In conclusion, I have no idea what does it mean to be a lady, but at the same time I don't think that anyone does.

'Real man' is something that males made up long ago to feel even more manly, as being born as a man isn't manly enough. However, term 'real man' is starting to become more and more meaningless as a time flows. Nowadays not many people think of humans in terms of real woman or real man. Genders became equal and now 'real man' is used only in reference to "macho alfa" type of person and rather in sarcastic way. There's no real and only one type of being something, and so there's no possibility of being a real man because such a thing doesn't exist.